Giving up Control

“Blessed are those who trust in the Lord and

have made the Lord their hope and confidence.”

Jeremiah 17:7

• “Do you ever try to control people?” the voice on my car radio asked. “No way, not me,” I answered aloud. Then I recalled some- thing that happened only days before. I had had several family commitments when a friend called to invite me to dinner. “I’d love to, Anne,” I said, “but I can’t right now.” I explained my situation. “Oh . . . ,” Anne replied, after a long moment of silence. “Well . . . maybe . . . I’ll try,” I continued, aiming to please. Now it hit me! Although my friend had tried to control me through her attitude, I was guilty also. Because “people pleas- ing” is a way of controlling others too—altering my behavior to gain approval. I had to wonder: How else might I try to control circumstances or people through my words, facial expressions, or even by withdrawal of my love? Let go of control, trust God, and be blessed.

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